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Tuesday, 17 November 2009

  • :: So far yet so near ::

    I had been looking forward to this final to come, faster come and faster go. Just to realized it is just a blink away, ready and ready not. Problem with accounting and finance paper, you will never know if you plug in the right figures. >.< God bless me! and I shall see you all on this coming Saturday after my last paper.

Friday, 13 November 2009

  • :: Some says virtual romance lead to a higher divorcee rate ::

    Romance are generally a biological feelings that we human being develops. It normally happens as we are drawn to some sort of attractions from the attractive ones simply by the first sight or through communications and if the mutual understanding are met; it leads to a relationship and romance happens. How theoretical right?

    Living in the 20s, everyone is talking about macbook, iPod touch, Facebook and Twitters. These innovations do bring us closer to our friends and even creating new fans. This directly helps us in building a wider network without the travelling hassles. I believe it is these tools that got us closer to our distance friendship and relationships. These tools helped us to be updated with our loved one. Some people argues that isn’t it a more relevant practice through face-to-face relationship as marriage is about living with one and another but not chatting trough Skype nor Msn. So does that means there’s a concrete research stating that a practical relationship leads to high HEALTHY COMMUNICATION between a couple? Obviously NOT! I had seen many marriages falls apart because they failed to communicate; or they failed to find a suitable tool to express themselves. The generation Y kids are generally a developed Digital Auditory and Introvert. If there are no laptops the next thing we are depending on mobile phones. We believe in expressing ourselves through  existing media. Mind you, 3G is an excellent tool to use if the two are parted for work load or travelling.

    Virtual romance is a definite tool to refer to, off course I am not saying practical romance should be demolish but it is certainly an option for communication. The reason we are seeking a healthy romance, simply because we want someone to witness our journey rather than being a Mr. Lonely. Introverts would love take this an opportunity to impress and express theirs’ feelings to their loved one before screwing up theirs’ first date with wordless or countless of Ahhhh..Ermmm in reality.. On the other hand, it is still sweet to receive virtual affections if there’s non-existing one. At the end of the day, the thoughts that counts and most importantly love is blind.

    Eh..Ah Pek..Virtual romance doesn’t necessary be that negative k. It is certainly an option for communication!    

Thursday, 12 November 2009

Tuesday, 10 November 2009

  • :: Let's talk about Men ::

    Ladies,

    Understanding a man would take up an infinity time frame because we are females. Having to said so, there many type of men that I had came across with.

    The best friend type, that would accept we ladies of who we are and what we do. Would even initiate to join in and there's countless topic to talk about and laugh with. But because he is a HE we don't share all as compared to we ladies friends. These are the guys that we feel nice to have them around but may not be our cup of tea. *Vice-Versa*

    The online romantic type, then there's this guy that I had known him for years and recently we started chatting. He's not studying in Malaysia of course. We realized we both falls into the same category the Digital Auditory gang. That tags along with reading one and another's blog and msges occasionally. Because he reads my blog, he understands me pretty well. Especially the fact that I would love to be quiet at certain point of time. He would sit up and visit Mr. Google just to send a funny video clip daily. That had lasted for a month plus, even when I am not around he would spam my msn with links of videos. *Thank you so much*

    The heart breaker type, the one would just walk away from your life without saying goodbye.

    The unclassified category type, those that ladies can't helped to fall in love with. Someone that say he wants to be in control yet not. Someone that would say he wants to see you but turned out spending the whole evening with he's friends not bothering to msg or call. Someone that can make your life confuse whether what he said or what he is doing is align. Occasionally make us ladies felt unworthy.

    Are all guys the same? I wonder.................................. I once learned the key for a successful relationship is to accept and never expect. So does that means, we accept all these?

Monday, 09 November 2009

  • :: Is a BIG BIG DAY ::

    DEAR Cheestal.blogspot,

    *WAVING my hand* you have a loyal reader here. hehe.

    The QUITE BIG DAY,

    Is next Saturday and we still can't finalized the guest list.
    but I am happy enough that this party had gone to an international level, where I have BLACK BEAR coming all the way from Singapore to help me out. My Big brother from Thailand that I hope he's not joking with me. Most importantly, my close buds that sending their blessing from Melbourne.
    Glad my sayangs are still coming over, or else I will be shoo-ing off the flies.

    Not sure what to wear, and my aunt said don't u plan to do shopping =D

    Attending Sea-Change and meeting Dr Juinady-G.Sect of Ministry of Y&S

    Finals in 10 days time!
    *I am ready, I am ready not, I am never ready, I think*
    and I will be done with my studies
    First Class Honor is in my hand *hopefully*

    On the 24th of November, I will be getting my Buddhist Name and Blessing by the Chief at Brickfield Maha Vihara. Which means I have to be even more well behave than before.

    Kota Kinabalu trip with Christina, only the 2 of us. after 7 years of friendship. We finally got the permission to travel together.
    Leadership program organized by my UNI@ Kerling, Selangor

    Dewan Persidangan with the Parlimen

    ASEAN IBYE------with lots of workload and fun! Pulling it through


    I promise to have some fun after my exam :) Let's see what I can come out with. hehe Spending more time with the neglected ones.hehe

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