Romance are generally a biological feelings that we human being develops. It normally happens as we are drawn to some sort of attractions from the attractive ones simply by the first sight or through communications and if the mutual understanding are met; it leads to a relationship and romance happens. How theoretical right?

Living in the 20s, everyone is talking about macbook, iPod touch, Facebook and Twitters. These innovations do bring us closer to our friends and even creating new fans. This directly helps us in building a wider network without the travelling hassles. I believe it is these tools that got us closer to our distance friendship and relationships. These tools helped us to be updated with our loved one. Some people argues that isn’t it a more relevant practice through face-to-face relationship as marriage is about living with one and another but not chatting trough Skype nor Msn. So does that means there’s a concrete research stating that a practical relationship leads to high HEALTHY COMMUNICATION between a couple? Obviously NOT! I had seen many marriages falls apart because they failed to communicate; or they failed to find a suitable tool to express themselves. The generation Y kids are generally a developed Digital Auditory and Introvert. If there are no laptops the next thing we are depending on mobile phones. We believe in expressing ourselves through  existing media. Mind you, 3G is an excellent tool to use if the two are parted for work load or travelling.

Virtual romance is a definite tool to refer to, off course I am not saying practical romance should be demolish but it is certainly an option for communication. The reason we are seeking a healthy romance, simply because we want someone to witness our journey rather than being a Mr. Lonely. Introverts would love take this an opportunity to impress and express theirs’ feelings to their loved one before screwing up theirs’ first date with wordless or countless of Ahhhh..Ermmm in reality.. On the other hand, it is still sweet to receive virtual affections if there’s non-existing one. At the end of the day, the thoughts that counts and most importantly love is blind.

Eh..Ah Pek..Virtual romance doesn’t necessary be that negative k. It is certainly an option for communication!    

Ladies,

Understanding a man would take up an infinity time frame because we are females. Having to said so, there many type of men that I had came across with.

The best friend type, that would accept we ladies of who we are and what we do. Would even initiate to join in and there's countless topic to talk about and laugh with. But because he is a HE we don't share all as compared to we ladies friends. These are the guys that we feel nice to have them around but may not be our cup of tea. *Vice-Versa*

The online romantic type, then there's this guy that I had known him for years and recently we started chatting. He's not studying in Malaysia of course. We realized we both falls into the same category the Digital Auditory gang. That tags along with reading one and another's blog and msges occasionally. Because he reads my blog, he understands me pretty well. Especially the fact that I would love to be quiet at certain point of time. He would sit up and visit Mr. Google just to send a funny video clip daily. That had lasted for a month plus, even when I am not around he would spam my msn with links of videos. *Thank you so much*

The heart breaker type, the one would just walk away from your life without saying goodbye.

The unclassified category type, those that ladies can't helped to fall in love with. Someone that say he wants to be in control yet not. Someone that would say he wants to see you but turned out spending the whole evening with he's friends not bothering to msg or call. Someone that can make your life confuse whether what he said or what he is doing is align. Occasionally make us ladies felt unworthy.

Are all guys the same? I wonder.................................. I once learned the key for a successful relationship is to accept and never expect. So does that means, we accept all these?

Is raining cats and dogs outside, I am sitting down crossed legged listening to the music of nature. It is a day that I felt I was on an extreme slow pace compared to others. Sitting down at Secret Recipe alone and watching how the cars speeding and passing back. Everyone in the restaurant was busy chit chatting with their friends except me.  I couldn’t stop looking at my mobile phone hoping someone would give me a ring and talk to me while I am seeping my Darjeeling Tea slower than normal.

Fifteen minutes passed, for the very first time I felt that life had been truly empty. Have I been walking on an insignificant journey all these while? I laid my head down on the table and started pondering what love is all about? Have I been too selfish to myself that I had ignored people around? There again, I tried so hard to recall how is it to feel like to be truly in love?

I couldn’t answer myself after all these years. I am not too sure if love can be measured by intimacy? Or simply by saying I love you daily. The last time I checked, it wasn’t that commercial but I remember I felt secure and being understood.

“Is it because of the past, I had become so defensive towards a relationship?” or is it because I am putting more and more expectation on myself that I am living in my ideal world in my wildest dream? Or is it because is hard to have a mutual understanding relationship nowadays?

The ugly truths are:

1)      Girls have their moment of attention seeking while guys find it irritating.

2)      Girls think intimacy comes after the relationship meets a level of understand while guys think it comes in a package.

3)      Girls rather spend some time to call and talk even when they don’t meet their loved one while guys think if you want to be in a relationship you have to meet up.

4)      Girls can multitask better as we can deal few things at one go while guys can’t; when they are busy working, leave them alone.

I am just feeling upset and I am not too sure where I am heading to. Yeap, I think a lot, because that’s what a thinker too. At least, I picked up something from here.